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Ep #171: Siamon Emery: Tired of Carrying Pain? How to Break Free from Trauma

• Beate Chelette • Episode 171

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Avoiding facing your fears keeps you stuck. Simon Emery explains how running from fearful experiences or childhood trauma limits your potential and growth. Unlock your true strength instead.


Are you still carrying the emotional pain of your past — pain that was never really yours to begin with? 

In this episode of the Business Growth Architect Show, transformational coach Siamon Emery breaks down the truth about healing: don’t focus on fixing broken pieces. You were never broken at all. Siamon challenges the idea that we need to “fix” ourselves to be happy. Instead, he explains why wholeness has always been inside us — we just forgot.

Through his own journey of deep emotional work and trauma recovery, Siamon shows us that true strength comes from feeling everything — not from pretending we're fine. He explains the importance of self-regulation, how to create real safety within our bodies, and how revisiting our childhood pain with compassion, not judgment, can change everything.

If you feel stuck in patterns that you can't break, or weighed down by old stories that you’ve carried too long, this conversation will be the wake-up call you need. Siamon’s message is simple and liberating: you don't have to carry what isn't yours. Healing is possible and he shares a strategy to start doing it live on the show. A better, lighter life is waiting — and it starts with a choice you can make today.

🎯 Ready to heal yourself? Visit SiamonEmery.com to book your free 30-minute call and discover how you can finally leave the old baggage behind — for good.


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Siamon Emery:

Hi everyone. My name is Siamon Emery, creator of Somatic Progression. And in this episode of The Growth Architect, we get to talk about how we can reframe some of the most traumatic experiences that we've experienced, either through childhood or in our adult years, to one of connection and love, how this healing is available to everyone and how from this moment on, we can change totally the story that we want to share with everybody else. Hope to see you in the podcast. And

BEATE CHELETTE:

Hello, fabulous person! Beate Chelette here. I am the host of the Business Growth Architect Show, and I want to welcome you to today's episode where we discuss how to navigate strategy and spirituality to achieve time and financial freedom. Truly successful people have learned how to master both a clear intention and a strategy to execute that in a spiritual practice that will help them to stay in alignment and on purpose. Please enjoy the show and listen to what our guest today has to say about this very topic. Welcome back. Beate Chelette here from the Business Growth Architect Show, and today I am live with Siamon Emery, and Simon is going to talk about something I think many of us kind of know, kind of know they need to deal with, kind of do a little bit, but are they really and that is, are you willing to look at the trauma that you've experienced, the story that trauma represents in your life, and what are you going to do with it? And Siamon, you are the man that will answer all these questions. Welcome to the

Siamon Emery:

show to answer the questions presented to me, the answer so but yes, I and you got about a half hour or so. Yeah, perfect. All I need. Perfect for somebody

BEATE CHELETTE:

who has never heard of you is not familiar with your work, will you tell them what it is that you do and what problem do you solve for your clients?

Siamon Emery:

Well, literally, I solve a process that's basically called fear conditioning. So we, if we come into it to an experience. Look, it can be childhood based around childhood, not a problem. Yes, it also can be based around, also experiences in our adolescence or our early formative years. And so what we usually tend to happen and we'll have a negative experience, or we'll have an experience that sticks with us, or stays with us, we'll then get a conditioning around that experience that will say to us, or into our limbic system, which is like our emotional brain, that that's not fun or That's not nice. So I don't want to go there anymore. And so then we'll do put things and stuff in our life to avoid some of those scenarios. And so it can really simply be like, Okay, I don't want to be in that job anymore because I had a really bad experience in that job, that job interview, or that experience with starting this business, or with hanging around this type of person, it can be all of those things, you know, intertwined together, and then we can all lump it into this big conditioning space where we go, oh, that's that's something that I'm just going to now leave because that was a bad experience that I no longer wish to explore anymore, because so

BEATE CHELETTE:

is it like, you know, like I used to have a lot of friends in advertising and or in publishing, and then is that what? When they say, I hate the publishing industry or advertising sucks, I have a bad experience, but I'm not dealing with my one bad experience. Now I have to find something or someone to be at fault. Is that what it is correct?

Siamon Emery:

So then we look at it from, so is that experience? Then if we have that one bad experience, yeah. And then we look at it from in isolation, and then we go, okay, it must be that experience that's actually created the reaction that I have in isolation. So then we use the experience as a way to avoid then those scenarios, or those situations again, in those life because in our experience, that situation said that was not nice, that was not fun, that was not that was uncomfortable, that made me scared, that made me feel unsafe. And so then we sit with the actual scenario, and then we don't, and then we it's so much easier for us just to leave that as it is and not actually investigate in further. Because why

BEATE CHELETTE:

would we? Let's go right there. So let's say that the reason I did this isn't because I had a bad experience. I mean, I did have a bad experience. That's the truth, because my boss did say something or give credit to someone else, but that by itself, I may be able to shrug off on normal circumstances and say, Well, that just happens. People don't know better, or they do what they do, but you say there might be an underlying, deeper trauma to it. And so let's talk about how, how does this sort of connect? And I want to give you an example so we can make this really real. So I for those of you watching this as a video, you'll see me sitting here in wet hair because I literally just got out the shower, or someone was kind enough to push the interview for an hour because we had been gifted by an organization. That helps victims of natural catastrophes, with a whole team of 10 people that come in the dig through your Rubble, and they try to find trinkets, memories, memorabilias to help you. And one of the things that I found was a piece of gold, and I thought it was about it was from a gold ring, and this particular gold ring was in a separate jewelry box, deep hidden in the closet, because the ring was on the hand of my abuser. And I remember the ring vividly, and I had a visceral reaction when I inherited the ring and I couldn't bear to look at it. I couldn't bear to wear it. I burned it in the jewelry box, and now I have this clump of gold. So what is it about something like this? Like trauma a trigger? Is it? What's the story like? Help us figure out it's a ring. I mean, it has no meaning, really. It's a ring. It's a gold ring with a bunch of stones in it, but it's just a ring. But what is it about the symbolism of something like that that catches us so hard? Well,

Siamon Emery:

no, it isn't just a ring for you, though, Beate. It's not just a ring. It's not just a clump of gold with some with some gems in it, with some colored stones in it. That's not at all what it is, what it is, what it represents, and the symbolism of it is directly back to your abuser. Does your body instantly say this as it's as even in the depths of that emotional experience you're having, you've buried it completely away from you don't even know. You can't even remember, potentially, probably, that it was there during the fire. And then all of a sudden, when you're sifting through, what's the first thing that you think that you've come across pain? Yeah. And so then how do you identify that pain? That pain sit with you from your abuser still. So even though you're in a completely different emotional response, you still have a conditioning that holds your body in that space of identifying that experience, that abusive experience,

BEATE CHELETTE:

that's just nuts, right, if you really think about it. So I'm an adult, I've done a lot of work, certainly been doing my self development work. And you look at this and you go, wow, wow. I have emotions about this. What do we do? What do we do with and what do we tell? Tell our audience where we say, okay, in order for you to really get where you need to go or where you want to go, and you make these choices based upon where you want to go, not what you've been conditioned to react to. How do we snap them out of it? How we help them out of it? How do we how do I leave something like this behind?

Siamon Emery:

Well, it starts really with with actually creating a capacity in that limbic system, in that emotional body, that nervous system. So we start to really work with the body. So we start to calm it down as much as we can. We'll start on this meditative process that I use. It's actually like a yoga nidra is that we I rotate through the body in different circumstances and different understandings. Then we just start to feel, get an understanding for what a feeling, what our body is feeling in the moment. I introduced some really subtle techniques to help you calm into your body. Watch the shoulders drop, start to yawn a little bit. And so what we're doing is we're creating capacity in your nervous system. So that capacity then looks like, once you have that capacity, you don't go straight into a 10 out of 10 overwhelm when you get confronted by the same emotional trigger. You'll go to a three or a five if I'm going to create a space in your body that's going to sit with that aspect of yourself that was abused, so that that that person, that little person, I'm assuming, that that young lady, or that woman who really needed an adult in there, who really needed somebody to say, you're okay, I have you, you're fine, you're safe. So what we're going to do is we're going to create that together in your body. So how we do that is we create the system and the feeling of connection to that place. And so what's really interesting about it, with the way that I work, is, for the most part, b I don't actually want to know about your trauma. I should. Don't want to know about the negative things. I think you know, Freud's understanding of how we how we work with with mental issues is we want to talk about them and talk therapy and sort of eke out every little understanding we can about the experience, whereas, in actual fact, given my experience,

BEATE CHELETTE:

it just re traumatizes you over and over and over again. So

Siamon Emery:

if talking about that re traumatizes you bit, do you think that talking about really beautiful and really connected experiences from your childhood can actually re engage the safety from that space as well?

BEATE CHELETTE:

That's a thought I've never had. I understand that there are certain schools of thoughts, you know. The one is, you know, talk about it, experience what feels like, release it. Let it go, write the. Letters, the journals burn it. I find, very much like what you just said, that process does not work really well for me. So let's just say, for the sake of this podcast, we've done that, we're not going to talk about it. What else is there? So there is a plant medicine, which I have done, which I like. There is religion, prayer, which many people do, there are there's meditation. And so tell us about this method of yours, that because it's like, it sounds like it's a combination of somatic healing and meditation. What is it?

Siamon Emery:

Okay, so it's, it is basically those two things. So just a quick history into my experience, right? So I was born into a to a family of two intravenous drug users. I was born into what we would call the drug den in Sydney, and then I was for the first five years of my life. Nothing was was stable. It was all completely fluid. I was passed around. So never any consistency, and never anybody, and never really anything from my early stages of remembering, of anything good from that period of time in my life. And so obviously I was, you know, I through the enormous amounts of therapy, different therapeutic approaches I went through. I did all of the things I did, all the EMDR I did psychedelics. I went and lived in India for a period of time and got my diploma of yogic studies. I've been through so many different things, but as you say, like, what is the process? It's like I couldn't shift it. It was still there. I was so emotionally self aware that I COVID Lee knew that that okay, this experience that I had as a child is really going to basically, my trajectory is jail, addiction or death. So even that space, I knew that because listening, looking at the the ICE score, so, you know, adverse childhood experiences says, If you score more than seven or five, you're this many more times susceptible to cancer and to all of these other you know, anyway, we don't need to go down that space. I couldn't shift it until I went to India and I come back from India. India was traumatizing on its own. But what I brought back from that was this system called Yoga Nidra. So yoga nidra was a is a body based awareness where I sit you down. We're just sitting in front of the camera. Here you close your eyes. I talk some really, really simple breathing exercises. We get you connect into your body. I just rotate right hand, index finger, middle finger, ring finger, pinky finger, thumb. So just get you identifying, get you visualizing behind the closed eyes. What that initially does is it starts to pull your awareness out of this thinking amygdala sort of figure brain, this limbic system brain that you've consistently been in for so long. Get you into your body. Okay, great, I'm in the body. Where do we go? Right? So in my experience, what happens when I consistently think about the negative things in my life? Well, then I get a negative reaction that comes back into myself. I'm like, okay, and I get this overwhelmed, consistently, overwhelm, overwhelm, always thinking about the negative and then always looking around in my environment to see, to be conditioned, to see if there was ever that was ever that was ever going to happen again, just from that childhood experience. So what I replaced that with then was like, when was the first time? So in that state, quietly, sitting here, sitting to myself, and just asking myself this really simple question, when was the first time I ever felt safe? And the memory came to me in that moment, in that instant, and it was, I was four years old, potentially or five. I was sitting on my grandmother's couch. She's German. It was Saturday morning. She brought me the biggest bowl of rice krispies and the widest, the biggest amount of sugar you could ever want as a four year old boy, wrapped me in a comforter, and then, and then put the Saturday morning cartoons. And so this was the very first memory where I felt completely safe, completely seen and completely cared for and want. And the moment that memory dropped in, that was, it was so specific to me. It was my memory. It wasn't anyone else's memory. It was my memory. My whole body dropped, my whole experience coming to the safety I was that four year old boy again, on that couch with that comforter, experiencing those cartoons on a Saturday morning, and then coming out of that experience and going and then realizing, looking at my at at my own heart rate, at where I was feeling, how I was feeling in my body. I was exhausted after the experience, like I'd finally come into like a like a really connected place. I wasn't always in an adrenal state. My down regulated, like my pituitary gland, so there was no cortisol running through. And so then I did a bunch of deeper research. I started doing neuroscience around the understanding as well, and understood that what I was doing was a body based body awareness situation that actually changed my brain state. So it actually changed it from a condition space where I had synapses of fear, so synapses of hormones that were already that were upregulated to receive cortisol, nor noradrenaline or norepinephrine, sorry, which is called it in the states and and. Cortisol, so they were had synapses in the brain. They're always really primed to receive those. I was actually starting to down regulate those, and then up regulate these connections of serotonin. And then as I was up regulating these connections of safety and love, more more memories and connections of safety and love started to appear. Why? Because when we're in that limbic system, when we're in that activated state, we're actually always looking for fear. We're always actually unconsciously from new but a thing called neuroception, where we're in our environment, we're always passively, even just looking and feeling for not safe, because that's what we've always got to be on guard for. And so once I was able to turn that system off and connect it into safety systems and memories that were relevant to me. I could actually condition myself to come more into my intuition, more into my gut feeling. I could actually creating those things into that space where I could actually be more connected to my body and less in my head. The visual that

BEATE CHELETTE:

I have is like, it's almost like you're taking a train to a train station, and you're unhoking One wagon and you're hooking up another one into it, because you are absolutely correct. I think that the subconscious mind, and people say all kinds of things about the subconscious mind, but it is programmed in a particular way. It is what it is. It's there to keep us safe. It's doing a phenomenal job. I don't think God makes mistakes. So if it would have been not a good thing, we wouldn't have it. So it must be reason why it's why it's still there and so active all the time. But what you are saying is that if I give it too much value, or if I base my decision making on that wagon that I carry around, and I've never looked what's in the wagon, or why I'm even carrying the wagon around, or if it's unnecessarily heavy, or maybe I don't want the wagon at all anymore, I will continue to carry that with me. And then what does that do? Because I think that's really important for us to talk about. What I hear you say, redirect the experience to a positive experience, a rethinking, reprogramming, rewiring. What happens to me if I don't do it? Well, I

Siamon Emery:

think we can see what happens to you if you don't do it. You continually go down the road of fear, your capacity to hold spaces of dysregulation. So if capacity to hold spaces of not safe becomes less and less and less. And I'm sure you can witness that in some some people who are who are of advancing age, their ability to hold a fear state, or to be in a fearful place, is really reduced because they have no capacity to actually, and it's called allostatic load. So they have no capacity, actually, to go into another district loaded state, because their adrenals have been on for so long that cortisol has been pumping for so long. There's just no capacity in the body. So if we've been in that space where our body has been in that fight or flight for so long, and it's been well and truly taken advantage of in the media and in these spaces as well, because what really keeps people engaged is the fear state. Is fear we're

BEATE CHELETTE:

seeing this right now. I think we were seeing mastery of this. I mean, this is point blank mastery of keeping people in that state.

Siamon Emery:

So what happens when you're in a fear state, there you have an upregulated limbic system that amygdala is then going to take over. So it's called amygdala fear conditioning, or amygdala hijack. That amygdala is going to take over the prefrontal cortex, or the frontal cortex, the frontal lobes, right the frontal lobes is where we have rational thinking. So if we're where, if we're just consistently in a fear based state, from our limbic system. Now that limbic system is millions of years old, actually probably hundreds of millions. This limbic system that we have is has been evolving from the very first cross state that have that appeared on this planet, that fight or flight. That was the first brain, what we call the lizard brain. That was very much so the first brain, it was like, fight, fight, fight flight, or fawn, you know, run away, fight it, or just sit still, completely still. And so that evolutionary process has been with us from the moment, from the dawn of time on this planet. So people who expertly know how to control that will just keep feeding you fear and just keep you and then what that fear does. It's like somebody running back into a burning building when they've run out of it, yeah, and they don't know they're in such a fear state, they'll run out of the building and then turn around and run back in, because they're actually not you. Actually not using a rational process, because it's the conditioning of the brain. The brain doesn't have the resources to have actually give us the rational thought and the fight or flight system as well. It's one or the other. And that's that's an evolutionary process as well. So by then, coming out of that fear based state, by creating capacity, by actually managing ourselves, by by holding ourselves in safety, let's make it relevant to you. I'm going to go to an experience in your life that we're going to go to an experience in your life that you may have completely forgotten about because hasn't been relevant to you. And then as soon as you find that space, you go, Oh my gosh, I haven't thought about that. Years, why haven't you thought about why you were loved and safe? Because it's actually not relevant to your current experience, because you're in a really fear activated state. So just by helping you to come back into your body, by connecting you to lived experiences, not anyone else's lived experience, we then have the ability then to actually start to feel the fear and see the fear for what it is.

BEATE CHELETTE:

how does this relate to my work, to business? Now, Because it is the Business Growth Srchitect Show, after all. So now let's say I have this, I have these experiences. I'm cautious. I don't want to lose money. It's scary enough. The way it is, the market's uncertain. Business is uncertain. Future is uncertain. How do I how do I shake it off? Can I shake it off? What do I do? I want to run a business. I need to feed my family. I want to help more people. I want to make an impact in this world. How does this relate to that?

Siamon Emery:

Well, first of all, we'll talk about, what is your, what's your Why? Why you're actually doing this? Are you doing it for a reason, to to create comfort, or are you doing it to to prove to somebody, to a parent, maybe, or to a colleague or somebody else? Then this process, how is that relevant to that experience? Then we're going to show you that being more connected to your intuition, to your actual rational thinking, and giving everything space before we actually act out in a in a way, will give you so much more information in the moment than you could ever have previously thought about a lot of time in business when we have to make extreme decisions that could potentially, you know, send us a bankrupt almost, or certainly could go 50-50 it's like, well, if I'd make this your choice here, but there's also potential that I'm going to 10x what we've got as well. I have to rationally think out how that's going to be approaching. If you're coming at it from a place of of fear and of not connected to who you are, then you're going to make the wrong decision flat out, and you're going to be constantly trying to manage all of the expectations around you, or all the people around you at the same time,

BEATE CHELETTE:

but people so here's, I think, where it gets really interesting, because just judging at what's going on right now around us, people go and they look for information that confirms what they already believe in, and then They think it's logical, and they're facts. Are they facts and Is it logical, or is there a part about our brain that is trying to trick us into being more? I had this exchange yesterday, and somebody said that he believes that a particular statement that somebody made was correct, and then somebody says, well, it's not correct, because what this person said affects me in a negative way, and my business. And this was a conversation about tariffs my business, you know, instead of $5 it costs now$22 and then this person said, Well, you have to prove that to me. And I'm looking at this and I'm going, like, Wait, dude, so wait, you take in what somebody says to you with no proof, but that's the truth, but the person that counters what you believe in needs to provide proof for you to believe it, which is ridiculous. Is there an ultimate truth in all of this anyway, or is it all made up stories to begin with? And we just need to know we are always telling ourselves stories.

Siamon Emery:

It's audiology. If you're ideologically aligned to it, to a to an outcome, or to a person, you're going to defend that that that position to the

BEATE CHELETTE:

grave, regardless, that is the story. Then,

Siamon Emery:

yep, his audio, those people are ideologically attached to those to those belief systems, and because that's so ingrained in them, because that that them creates safety for them, it goes, Oh yes, that makes sense to me. That's really clear. I don't have to do the research. I'm fine. That feels right in my body, because everything else feels really scary, but that really feels right, that person seems to be in control Absolutely, and I'm not going to do any fact checking. I'm not going to do any I'm not going to listen to anybody else's problem. This is the the hill that I'm going to stand on with this and nobody can reach me on this hill. And that's totally fine. They can do it. They choose to. But history shows that, you know, eventually people who hold on to ideology or an ideological aspect of their you know, in their belief system usually doesn't end well for

BEATE CHELETTE:

them. No, it certainly does not so do I then need to be conscientious about what my brain tells me, because that, I think, is the real difficult part. Simon, yeah, is that, if I can even trust my own brain and my own thinking, we kind of like all screwed, because if this is my belief system, and I was raised to believe this, and now I'm listening to the show, and you go like, Oh, hmm. It may not be all that it's made out to

Siamon Emery:

it's it's not about, but it may not be what it's all made out to be, absolutely that experience that you had in your childhood is absolutely there. It's, I'm not saying that we deny it at all. What I'm saying is we give enough attention and noise for a one of a better word to the beautiful parts of it as well. So we balance out. We've just go, hey, you know, this was really crappy for a long time, and I had some crap stuff, but also there was some really beautiful times. And so what that does in what you're what the answer with the question you've just answered, is then we come more into a connected space where we are using like it's it's, we are using more critical thinking areas of our brain that gives us the capacity, then actually to make rational understandings about what people are saying, and also allow the person in front of us to have their opinion what they say doesn't directly affect me, Because I'm safe, I'm connected. I know my truth. Have to then force anyone else in front of me to change their opinion. They're free to have their opinion. They're free to have their worth, their understanding. That's fine. That doesn't affect me. It doesn't so what we're trying to do is, as you can see, you know what's happening in this moment is the world is in a really bad place. I'm going to align my nervous system and my way of being and my life to you because you've resonated, you've created a resonance in my body that says, Yes, I'm validated. Yes, it's not safe, but just because it's not safe doesn't mean it's relevant to what this guy is saying. This person's life is just not safe from a childhood perspective. So they attached that understanding, that childhood experience, on to this person, that then they go, here's my savior. Yes, he understands me. My fear is so great, that fear, they're not identifying the fear, where the fears come from. Like you said with the wagon, they're not looking in the wagon. They're just dragging it with them and going, Hey, here's my savior. Ideology approach. So it's really a Liz, a lizard brain thinking it's a limbic system. And I know how to do it so well. A lot of people know how to do it so well.

BEATE CHELETTE:

So if I want to create the future, you're saying that I have to figure out on how to release the trauma. But it may not necessarily be releasing in the way we have heard therapist, but by replacing it with more pleasant memories, which we also all have, just

Siamon Emery:

replacing, just including, oh, okay, yeah,

BEATE CHELETTE:

that's true. And I certainly noticed that when these memories came back of what actually happened, it's very difficult with that overwhelming negative emotion, then to go, oh, yeah, but we always had birthday parties when we were children, and they were nice birthday parties, and we got to go to movies. And then there's a part of my brain where, where my brain was to go? Well, but was she not just too lazy to bake her own cake, and did she not want to have you in the house? And is that why she sent you to the movie theater with your friends, so that she didn't have to do the work? And so I can see what you're saying is that what was a pleasant experience, because who doesn't like to go to see a movie with a bunch of chocolate bars in their hands is now tainted by a different experience, and it's almost like being dark hint. And I might now drag a good experience into a bad experience. What I'm hearing that's

Siamon Emery:

exactly what you're hearing, how I want you to really start to reframe it or think about it. You're an adult, you're actually really successful in many ways. Yeah, so when you look back to the animal, I'm going to use a little bit of internal family systems here, okay, when you look back to that part in your life, to that child in your life, what did she need in that

BEATE CHELETTE:

moment? She needed just to know that she was fine, that she was a good kid.

Siamon Emery:

And so now can you, from this point of view today, from you, the person you are today,

BEATE CHELETTE:

can you go back and tell her that, oh, I've told her that. We've been, we've been having lots and lots of conversations,

Siamon Emery:

right? So you've told her that. Now I yeah, I did. Can you go back and let her feel that, feel what it feels like to be safe, to feel what it feels like to make it, to how you've made it now, what does it feel like to have be the woman you are, the successful woman you are today, to go back to there and sit with her and say hey, and you're actually the mother to her now you're the one who goes back to her and say, you're going to be great. You're doing really well. You're

BEATE CHELETTE:

actually doing that was that was an incredibly powerful experience to go into that room after after a beating, and say, You know what, the next 10 years are going to suck, but you're strong. You're going to make it, and one day you're going to help. Lot of people, and this is, these experiences are going to shape who you are, but you're going to be okay.

Siamon Emery:

But the major difference here is is, not only are you going to be okay, hey, you're fine. So creating the capacity to feel the grief of that childhood, and that's okay, it's welcome. All versions of me are welcome here. I'm not suppressing anything. I'm allowing everything to be here. All of it is welcome now, through creating the safety in my body, through creating a really regulated space, I can help that part of me co regulate through me. I know it sounds a little bit esoteric, but this is how it works. I

BEATE CHELETTE:

actually don't think this sounds too esoteric at all. I think that the awareness is definitely rising for people who don't want to carry the baggage anymore, and they don't want to carry the baggage of their parents, I'm not here to solve that. I'm here to solve my own story. And I think that's really the message that I'm hearing from you, is that we have a choice. So as we closing this interview, talk to me about what is the choice we want to leave our audience with

Siamon Emery:

healing and wholeness is available to everyone, from all walks of life, from all experiences, from every adverse childhood experience you could ever, ever want to experience. We were never not whole. Yeah, we were never not whole. We were just given experiences from people who didn't know any better themselves. We thought that they weren't whole when they were actually whole as well. I can balance out my my world. I can say that that actually for me, but all of my experiences have created a life for me that's amazing. I travel the world with what I do, and I talk, get to talk to amazing people like yourself. I get to live in beautiful countries, and I get to help like minded people like myself. So would I ever want to take my experience, childhood experience away. Never it's created this person, this version of me that actually I love deeply right now. But if with more that we dig into it, you'll see that actually more and more of those experiences should be more relevant to who you are. I

BEATE CHELETTE:

absolutely love that. So Siamon, for somebody who now wants to get in touch with you and learn about the work you do, because they are ready to let it all go and recreate the story. Where do we send

Siamon Emery:

them? Certainly just my web page. Simon Emery, so it's S, I, A, M, O N, E M, for Mark E-R-Y.com, is my web page. You can certainly book a free 30 minute call. I'm also on Instagram and Facebook. Siamon Emery read in Simon green. But yes, so yeah, there's plenty of

BEATE CHELETTE:

and all that and all, and we'll have it definitely in the show notes for you, for our listeners, so you can, you can follow them up, and that is it for us for today. Thank you so much for being here. What an interesting interview we had,

Siamon Emery:

fantastic B. Thank you so much for having me. It's been a pleasure, and

BEATE CHELETTE:

that's it for us, for today, please, if so, if you know somebody who is maybe, in your opinion, carrying a little bit too heavy of a burden, or focuses on maybe some of the things that could be shifted into a more positive experience, please share this interview and help them to also be one of those people that says, I love my life, because I think that's everybody deserves that, and with that, I say goodbye and I see you next time. So appreciate you being here. Thank you so much for listening to the entire episode. Please subscribe to the podcast, give us a five star review, a comment and share this episode with one more person so that you can help us help more people. Thank you again, until next time. Goodbye.

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Beate Chelette

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Siamon Emery

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